Hello, thank you for your kind words. You can purchase a bare-root tindora plant from Our Tropical Soil using this link.
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Tindora plants are either male or female. The plant you described is a female plant. The small fruit that falls off with the flower is called the ovary of the fruit. That is the part that grows into a fruit if the flower is pollinated. A male plant is also needed for the female flower to set fruit. The bugs will spread the pollen from the male to the female plant. Then every pollinated flower will grow a fruit. I am not sure what you mean about your new plant being self pollinating. Do you mean it produces both male and female flowers on the same plant? The plant I have is a sterile female plant that does not need any pollination to set fruit. So every flower it makes will grow a fruit without pollination. The only way to propagate it is by cuttings. If you plant the seeds they do not grow.

Thank you! You can purchase a bare-root tindora plant from Our Tropical Soil using this link.
https://ourtropicalsoil.com/product/tindora-bareroot-plant/

Yes they are super aggressive growers. When the vines touch the ground they will root and spread everywhere. You have to keep it very controlled while only letting the vines grow on a trellis. Any part of the vine touching the ground you have to prune. Then they establish deep roots and you have to dig them out in order to remove the plant completely.